Thursday, June 7, 2007

They do things differently here.

If you've been following along, you've learned that our time here was not what we expected. We do not live in Dar es Salaam, we are not working at an orphanage or an existing school (like we originally expected), we are not living in a youth hostel or mud hut (I was sorta looking forward to writing about that-ha!), and we have been given the huge responsibility of starting a school...yes, starting up a primary school. All 10 of us are trying to teach Zinyeto, Grace, and Nelly all that we know. It is a daunting task, but an exciting and challenging one. The volunteers here are truly motivated, which is a blessing.

The 2hrs in the morning and 2hrs in the afternoon that we teach really wipe us out. That may sound crazy--how can a mere 2hrs wipe out all 10 of you? Believe me, when there has been no structure, order, or discipline set up, and when you don't know the language, everything takes longer and takes more out of you.

Even teaching the kids how to stand in line for the jump rope takes forever--they may "get it" for a while, but not everyone does, and there's constant pushing and shoving going on. In many ways, the things I've seen and experienced is what all of us would be like had we not learned how to share, how to follow rules, how to treat others the way we want to be treated, etc. It is human nature and instinct to act in such ways. Things that seem like common sense to us are not to them. I have been reminded of our fallen human nature and our innate longing for discipline, structure, and boundaries.

5 THINGS THAT ARE BECOMING "NORMAL" (in no particular order):

1. "Old MacDonald's Farm Crossings"--cows, chickens, goats, you name it--in fact, while writing this--I saw a bunch of cows crossing the road.

2. Out of This World Body Odor--to be fair, I'm not sure I've ever really had body odor after experiencing the smell of it here!

3. Crazy Play Toys for Children--nails, glass, straw, rusty screws, old propellers, etc--very sad.

4. Straw/String Earrings--girls will have a piece of dirty string or a piece of straw used as an earring--sometimes only in one ear.

5. Humidity (Forgetting What it Means to be Dry)--my hair is always wet (from sweat or a shower), and everything here has a bit of a damp feel--paper, my bed and the sheet on it, the chairs, my clothes...everything.

Thank you very much for your support and prayers. We appreciate it big time. For those who know me/are related to me (hint, hint)--don't be shy in making comments! :)

14 comments:

Anonymous said...

Jenny your top 5 are much better than ESPN's top 10 plays of the week and Jay Leno's top ten countdown. Keep them coming.

I hope you all have a great weekend!

Anna Pearson said...

Thanks for giving us insight into your daily lives. I've been humbled just by reading your blog and realizing how blessed we truly are. I hope ya'll have a wonderuful weekend. You three are awesome!

Anonymous said...

Thanks for clarifying expectations vs. actual experience – we wondered… The work you’re doing is very important. If you had all details on the front-end, you might have been afraid of the challenge. The blog is excellent – really liked the video of children playing.

rick/mom

Rachelle said...

seriously....how much do i love you guys? my encouragement...do not let others tell you that it is just africa-do not. i heard that so many times and i did not let it phase me. you are there to change that and it does not just have to be africa.
also, the blog earlier, i cut grass in sudan like that man was...it is tiring and hard work!!
i am praying specifically for strength and HOPE...you bring hope to these people. you do.

Melissa said...

ggmHooray Jenny! I was hoping to here from you soon. Not that I live in Africa or I'm trying to say my life is as hard as yours, but there's definitely cultural similarities here in the Caribbean. Man do I understand how wearing it is to have a large group of kids that don't know about standing in line, sharing, staying quiet while you're explaining rules, etc.! Plus living in a place so humid that nothing is ever dry, including bed sheets or hair (hence my decision to finally get dreads instead of trying to do my hair - did I tell you I have dreads?). So anyway, what you're doing is so awesome though. Blog more! Miss you. : )

melissa

Anonymous said...

We have been so inspired by your blog. What a great example you are to everyone back home! A care package for the children is on the way with school supplies to make life a little better. John and Jim both earned money to pay for it. Thanks for helping teach them the gift of charity. Love you,
Kristen

Shari said...

Hey Jenny,
I am finding myself "tuning in" to the blog. It is my enjoyment for the day! The two of you should publish a book! Your writing and humor is priceless!
Still praying for you all!
Shari Caruthers

Anonymous said...

Hey Jenny It's Cindy Szuch, I am enjoying following your adventure by reading each night! Well it's hot and humid here too if that makes you feel any better! Makes me feel guilty for all we have in the states! Continue the good work, have some fun!

Anonymous said...

Hey, Jenny, I found you!!!!!

Everyone in the family is enjoying your reports and lookign forward to the next installment. I have a feeling these experiences will never be forgotten.

Say your prayers.

Love
Aunt P

The P Daddy said...

Hello Wren! I love reading your blog and check it repeatedly every day. Underdog raises his hind leg in salute to you and the kids in Africa!
Keep up the posts. Wear sunscreen and take a big bite of chicken from the restaurant for me!
Parke

Maggy said...

Hope you are enjoying a good weekend and a break from the daily responsibilities. John and I are enjoying the blog and appreciate the time and effort it takes. We are so proud of all of you in managing the actuality of your stay there as opposed to what you expected. Keep up the good work, and consider how your next mission will be different.

How's Bruce? Haven't seen a post from him.

Stay well. Our prayers are with you.
Love,
L J

Anonymous said...

Hey girls! I am enjoying reading your entries and thought I would venture out into "posting" a message on your blog! I have been thinking and praying for you all since you left. It is so neat to see all the wonderful things you are doing over there. I love reading about your daily adventures! Lauren, I hope the food has gotten better.... miss you and look forward to hearing more about the amazing things you are doing to help others!
Molly

Anonymous said...

Sounds/looks like you guys are having a great experience. The video of the children in the school yard blew us away with just how many kids you guys are working with. I figured the video would have 15-20 kids, not 100+!

Stay safe and thanks for keeping the blog, it's really interesting

Lauren K said...

Hey Lauren & Jenny!

The blogs are great - you are both such talented writers and I love reading about what you're up to. Those little boys are TOOO cute- will you please bring me one :)? Zanzibar is gorgeous. Talk about torture being Muslim and living on that beach!

Keep up the hard work - you'll be home before you know it.

Love you and I'm praying for you!

Lauren